I Want To Catch My Husband Cheating

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By StewardL

Believe it or not, husbands can sometimes cheat on their wives. Not all men do it, but a large enough number do that it is a really sad part of society. It happens at the highest tiers of American society and on the lowest rung of America's social ladder. No one is immune to it - the very religious and ultra conservative seem just as capable of marital infidelity as the loose and liberal. It just seems like a fact of existence - some men are going to cheat on their wives.

But never before have we lived in an era where a woman's ability to catch her cheating husband been so extensive or complete. In the age of GPS tracking, cell phones, and computer key stroke logging a person's most intimate and "private" of details can be made known to a spouse . They might be cheating now in secret, but to a determined, resourceful wife they cannot cheat in secret for forever.

Cheating sucks - and any woman or man that suspects their spouse of cheating deserves to know the truth.
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Cheating sucks - and any woman or man that suspects their spouse of cheating deserves to know the truth.

Using GPS Tracking To Catch a Cheating Husband

One great way to try and catch a cheater is to utilize the ever increasing presence of GPS tracking devices. These devices are relatively small and can very easily and covertly be placed in all sorts of places to get vital information on your spouse's whereabouts throughout the course of the day. But despite the vast number of places that you could put the tracking device, probably the most popular is in the car.

The reason that the car is such a popular place is that they generally need to take the car with them whenever they go someplace. They need to be able to head out and meet their lover some place. So if the car is at a place where you did not expect it to be - like in front of an apartment building, parked in a hotel parking lot, or on some strange residential street - you can either travel to that destination to discover what is going on or you can store that information somewhere for use at a later date. If you see a pattern happening thanks to your GPS tracking device then you are going to have a lot of ammo when you confront them or follow them and find them cheating.

Most car tracking GPS devices can fit covertly inside the wheel well of car. Some more substantial devices can also be installed under the hood of the vehicle and allow you to remotely turn off the car, lock the doors, or turn on the headlights.. Many tracking devices can be viewed in real time, but most of these devices not only require a hefty purchase price (anywhere from $150-$600) they also come with a cell phone-like subscription plan. These trackers are anything but cheap, but the amount of detailed information they provide can be invaluable for those looking to get some real, verified answers about their husband's fidelity.

The other route with a GPS tracker is to go with something that simply logs their movements. These devices are about the same in cost but they generally do not have the service fee associated with them. They still provide excellent tracking information, just at a more reasonable fee. The one downside is that you are not kept abreast of their whereabouts in real-time so you cannot go to the location of their cheating and "check up" on them to see what they are up to. The best you can do is find a pattern and then try to anticipate their next move.

A more general problem with tracking your husbands car is that some cheating is not going to happen with their car.  What if they meet up at work and she drives them to their place of rendevouz?  What if it happens while they are at work?  A GPS tracking device for cars isn't going to be able to catch him then.  But there are other devices that are useful still.

Making Use of the Cell Phone To Catch the Cheater

Cell phones.  Everybody has them and everybody uses them all the time.  If they aren't making work calls, then they are texting or calling friends, surfing the internet, or playing with some game or new application.  Did you also know that almost all cell phone can now be tracked with GPS or GPS-like technology?  This makes them great for keeping tabs on a person since most people are almost always going to have their cell phone on them at all times.

With GPS cell phone tracking you get real time information about your husbands whereabouts AND you can call him to make sure that he is with his phone.  Talk about powerful!

Also, by using certian cell phone providers you can get access to all sorts of information on your husband's phone - like who he has been calling, what text messages he has been sending and recieving, as well as his internet browsing history if his phone has that capability.  You can get a much more complete picture to help you find out if your husband is cheating or not.

Imagine being able to see your husband get a text from his mistress and then seeing your husband get up and leave work to go meet her at the location that you saw in the text.  Or imagine seeing a phone number come up over and over again on your husband's call list but not know who that number belongs to?  All you have to do is give it a ring from a public phone to find out who she is without having her know who you are. 

You simply can't get this type of information from a simple GPS tracking device.

Technology is going to be your friend if you want to catch your cheating husband.  Make use of it and you will get a quick answer to your question and finally take the action that you need to keep you and your family safe.

Comments

Mary 2 years ago

Thanks for all this helpful information. I think my husband might be cheating on me and now I know that I can install some stuff on his cell phone and be able to know where he is at any given moment. This is really going to help me figure out if he is cheating or not.

jennybug 2 years ago

What about crazy husbands just stalking their wives, their should be some sort of regulation on this stuff. I understand the heart ache but it can work in so many bad ways...

Bianca888 2 years ago

Um, shouldn't you guys be giving your husbands some space? You may not know for sure if your husband is cheating on you or not, so why attach a GPS to his cellphone? If he were to find out, he'd be very upset. If he is cheating, just talk to him, and if he can't come clean then, don't stalk him! Just let things play how how they will, and then take him to court or something. And even though a GPS would come in handy in court, you know, for proof, it may also look bad, and can get you into trouble.

But, what do I know, I'm only 12! :p

stacey reece 2 years ago

There is a very fine line between stalking crazy and just trying to find the truth!!

But you have to consider the health risk he puts you and your family under. Sexual transmitted diseases are carried and passed on. If he passes Aids, Hep C or anything else on to you, your family and children are also at risk!

Nice Hub :0)

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julier 2 years ago

this is all good and useful infromation but it wont work for everybody for example my husband dont use a cell phone and he dont drive. So what he does is go to work and claims he dont know what time he will be getting out and then calls me from his work phone to have me come and pick him up.

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Disturbia 2 years ago

Trust me, you don't want to know that your spouse has been cheating. You might think you want to, but you really don't. Sometimes ignorance truly is bliss.

alicia_struck 2 years ago

I totally agree with Disturbia. I'm not married, but my fiance had been cheating on me, and sometimes I think that maybe things would be better if I had never found out. I'd feel better if I wouldn't have known...but then again, he might still be doing it if I hadn't....but yes, ignorance truly is bliss.

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Rozzy88 2 years ago

Awesome HUB! I have one similar. It's always nice to see other's sharing resources like this. Cheating has sort of become "the norm" now-a-days, and I don't believe it's ok. Way to go!

cathy 2 years ago

My husband keeps his cell phone and computer locked to I can't see anything. I feel like he is seeing his co-worker and want to know what my options are on how to find out if he is cheating. He works out of town, so I have no way of knowing other than his cell phone and computer. Any suggestions?

amber 2 years ago

My husband usually has extra cell phones that I have found. Each time I find one he gets better about hiding them. Lock your phone and your computer, see how he feels about that. Find out where he is going and drive by see if he is there or his girlfriends house. What are we going to do with these cheating men?????

lanique 24 months ago

very useful, and to the ladies thats letting their men get away with this u deserve whatever u get

Mel 23 months ago

From what I've read on-line you can't just add an app to someones phone w/o their permission and if you could,umm they would eventually see it when they went thru their apps or downloaded another one. My husband has an Iphone and I know there's several tracking apps for it. What am I gonna do,say oh honey btw I need you to add this app to your phone so I can track you wherever you go?? Come on get real,like that's gonna fly!!!

musette 23 months ago

Hi,

I am at my wits end with my husband's shanagins. He met this guy who supposed to know all the ropes for getting men women who are married. If I see him now I swear I'll throw a knife right between his eyes. My husband was ok until this guy comes along and tells him what to do to, to still behave single. First he got him to go to strip joints, got him another cell to call the women on so I would not know. after a while I wound up with an std. Now I just want absolute proof to go to court.

stephanie 21 months ago

I think my husband has cheated on me many times..i dont know what to do...He just deinies it!!

CIAwife 19 months ago

Put a voice recording pen under the floor mat of the passenger's side or any other discreet place inside the vehicle. They usually record for 6 hrs & only cost $100. If a man is cheating and even using a separate cell phone, he will call her while he is in the car on the way to work or right before he drives up to the house. 6 hrs is plenty of time to catch suspicious calls. You can discreetly remove it each day to download the recording on your comp and charge it and place it back. If you need an excuse to get inside the car, tell him you're putting a nice car freshner in or clothes for him to drop off at the local goodwill or cleaners.

Jenn 17 months ago

Julier....OMG thats kinda what my husband does...he claims not to know when he gets out of work

..come on they think we r stupid, they dont know so they can play it by yr just case their girl wants to di something. And you know their g/f's know abt us ..thats what tops it all off and really gets me. Well good luck to u lord knows we need it..us wives need to stick together!!

JustMyTwoCents 16 months ago

A lot of angry ladies here. Just to let you know, I'm a husband and father of two. Gave my wife everything I could. Wasn't good enough. She had to hook up with some guy at the local gym. Caught her with a GPS. It worked great. I'd do it again just to catch her. Needless to say she felt I violated her trust. How ironic.

cheated on 15 months ago

to just my 2 cents. I was told by my wifes friend that my wife is cheating on me. she loves my wife like a sister but she just feels bad for me, I have confronted her and she denies it so I thought I would try something like you did. can you tell me what tracker you used?

confused 15 months ago

I think that my husband of 20 years is cheating on me. He doesn't have odd calls on his cel phone and is not on the computer much, so I don't think any devises would work. But he does use a computer at work and phone. I am thinking that he contacts whoever it is from work. He doesn't work late, But he has said that he is going to lunch with a co-worker and that he wouldn't be able to answer his phone (it would be rude). He has been doing somethings different when we make love and there are spots on his underwear on days that we have not made love. I have confronted him and he denies it and said that I give him to much credit, like he would be able to get anyone else. He is still very affectionate to me. There are times that he comes home and it seams like his kids and family are an aggravation to him. One day he wore jeans to work when he always wears dress pants and when I confronted him he said that it was cold out. I am thinking of calling a private investagator, I don't know what else to do I hate not knowing.

chimichanga:) 14 months ago

i think my husband is cheating on me because he locks his phone and his ipad he always keeps his car really clean we have a son and we have a booster seat for him and my husband when he goes out he puts it in the trunk also i found a receipt from edible arrangements and i never got the gift so who knows where it got sent to i confronted him and all he did was act mad and not talk to me i think he is still cheating because i found pictures of the girl in his phone and i confronted him and he got mad i mean if he is going to cheat do it right cause i find more things without wanting to find it i know where that person lives so i track him through my phone and hes been going to see her and when i tell him he say he wasnt there that he hasnt seen her every tuesday and he turns off his phone and i cant track him at all and i ask him why do u turn of your phone he says so you wont be calling me at the time and now he wants to go out on thursday and sunday so i want to be able to catch him on the act and now he buys alot of clothes and he lost weight and everything i would like to get a gps installed in the car but then in a way i dont want to do anything i will regret because i have my son.

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toolman 13 months ago

need to get wifes pass code to her cell acc.

Ana 8 months ago

Well I prefer to know then not knowing that way you know the next step step to take

darn shame 8 months ago

i caught my wife cheating on me several times with gps tracking devices and cell phone monitoring software. she never knew anything and went on about it like it was ok, until i brought all the proof i had to her. she still denied it. i worked hand in hand with the guys at baby daddy tracker to get all the proof i needed. i was tired of being cheated on, we have two beautiful children together, but i could not take the cheating any more. all i had to do was call 855 track-gps and they got me well on my way to catching him for good www.babydaddytracker.com was the place for me. you should try it too. Darn Shame

nicole 3 months ago

Um, i uploaded a gps tracker on my mans phone, he used to question me whether or not i was truely home, so i downloaded it to his and mine phone and track everything he does. But honestly i dont care if he is or not, i mean i do cuz i love him but i dont care cuz i dont want to worry all the time. But the app i downloaded is free and pretty good. Its called family locater on the android market, just say that you was getting stocked by an old ex and just in case anything ever happens he can find you. Dont ever let him know you know or think you know, then he will try hiding it more, act normal like nothings happening i know its hard trust me, i just jogg a lot and i got a puppy so it helps keep my mind busy, and also what helps is, i have walmarts family plan and guess what, it tracks all incomming and out going texts and calls soooo all you have to do is check it once a while to see who hes been chatting with, thank god my man behaves, helped put my mind at ease. With the walmart family plan by tmobile once you get the phone just set up your account online and you can view it all!

darnrabbit 2 months ago

check out the cheaters forum if you have ever been cheated on, been the cheater, thought about cheating, or just want to talk about it. www.cheaters-forum.com

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itgirlnola 3 weeks ago

The fact is, you cant just look at cell usage. My husband has been cheating on me with prostitutes. He used Yahoo Messenger to make the communications because its not traceable'

betrayed 2 weeks ago

One thing I have not seen mentioned that could be a great source of knowing more. Check wifi access points in the wireless connections of phone. For instance just found days inn on my husbands. We have not stayed there and ya you need a pw given to you to access it. I'm sure most if not all hotels pw protect their wifi.

It's a rotten deal being on the end of the cheated on. Gl.

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